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Why I’m Transitioning Back to a Paper Planner

paper planner

As many of you know, we’re expecting our little bundle of joy this December! Well, let me tell you…pregnancy brain is a thing. I used to be such a judgey wench about pregnant people…especially when I was in my teens and 20s and spent my time going to the gym, spending money on coffee & cigarettes, and lived on fast food. Did I mention I was much thinner while doing all of that?  Anywho, I thought a lot of symptoms like pregnancy brain and emotional uprisings were just women being annoying and whiny. Now that I’m older and, well, pregnant, I can assure you pregnancy brain is real. And my tech-driven method of planning with a new family on the way was not going to work. I’ve always loved a paper planner for planning my lessons, but my personal life was always on my phone…until I forgot to set alerts that is. First, a bill went unpaid, then I missed a meeting with a friend by 2 hours, and finally I said enough.

paper planner

I went down the Erin Condren road and loved the planner itself, but needed something that was easy to tote around. Then, I thought about a Passions Planner that one of my students had (and it was pretty B.A.), but still the size was hindering me. While walking to my summer teaching gig, I found the most adorable fox staring back at me. How could I leave him there alone? So, why the change you ask? Let me explain!

  • Studies have shown when you write something down, you remember it!
  • No need to set an alert, that’s already done for you by jotting down your plans. 
  • Dependability. There have been times that my iCal and my Macbook did not sync up, resulting in double booking myself which is completely humiliating!
  • I need a ritual. Checking my planner allows me to have that ritual and reflect on the week ahead. This article talks about the importance of building in writing time. 
  • Fresh starts. My new planner has a week at a glance rather than an entire month which can sometimes overwhelm me. 
  • When you have multiple people to plan for, iCal doesn’t cover it. I have myself, Keith, Myles, and a future little gremlin. Enough said. 

I’ll still use my iCal for on the go things if I don’t have my planner with me. But, I’m going back to basics starting in August. How do you keep it all together?

Myles wants you to know…

That the family is expanding come December! I am so excited to finally share this news with the blogosphere. As I keep reading the same blogs that I started reading when I was in high school, so many of us are starting families, epic business endeavors, and doing so many other amazing things! Guess we’re all growing up now, huh? We are registered as Babies R Us and I’m basically Pinteresting my future child’s life (though let’s be real…the Pinterest extraordinaire is Keith in this family). I’ll keep you posted on all of the exciting happenings & of course, all of the dirty hippy products we’ll be using on our little butterfly. <3


How Teachers Feel As of Memorial Day Explained by .gifs

I’ve been a real big slacker lately because of work. I’ll admit it. Between setting goals for next year, grading short stories, and generally trying to keep my sanity I have had a PILE of products to talk about, but the energy has not been there. Real talk. Teachers don’t stop working when the last bell rings. I know I don’t have to say that more than once. But, summer is here…almost. Memorial Day has always been the unofficial start of summer for most teachers. Here’s how I’m feeling as of right now…and probably up until their graduation when I ugly cry because I’ll miss them. 

After lunch all hell breaks loose. At this point in the year I’m like, can we just not get hurt?

I also let them police themselves. Sorry, I’m not stressin’ at this point in the year. Luckily, I have at least one rational person in each class who can discipline as well as I can. 

Another assembly? But…I have things for them to READ! And stuff for them to WRITE!

Sometimes I just yell incomprehensible nonsense at them. They’ve accepted it’s that time of the year.

But despite all of that, I’ll be doing THIS come June 10 when they move on to the world of high school. 

Just stay tuned! I’ve got some amazing vegan nail polish and cruelty free summer essentials headed your way! 

If I Were Going to Coachella and/or Burning Man

I haven’t been to a really great music festival in a long time. I’m old now. A crazy night to me is sitting on my couch staying up later than 10 p.m. to binge-watch Portlandia while eating 99% fat free popcorn. In a former life I was obsessed with the glam side of music festivals just as much as the music. But, I was a snob. Something where I might sweat, have to sit on the ground, or be close to strangers freaked me out. Now…fast forward to my late (late) 20s and going to Burning Man or Coachella would be my JAM! And because I’m older, wiser, and DGAF about what other people think anymore, I’d probably have a lot of fun. And, I’d wear some whacked out stuff. For now, I’ll settle for wearing my paisley pants in the classroom. But a girl can dream right? 

I am obsessed with anything comfy and flowy. If I were going to be out in the heat, I need something that isn’t going to make me hotter. Enter the palazzo pant in a funky paisley print. I wear these on the regular because they’re so fun and light. I can almost smell the Patchouli incense (oh, wait…that’s just me), and the same goes for anything with FRINGE. I’m loving the woven bags that I’m seeing everywhere this Spring. This cross body bag shown above makes toting my goods easy. You’re supposed to pack light at these things, right? Buh bye…tote bag! Next up…the American Flag short (because my husband thinks they’re tacky). I love how rompers look on other people, but I haven’t been brave enough to actually wear one yet myself. Maybe this summer is the summer I give it a whirl? And last but not least a loud accessory or piece like this backpack OR the sunflower shorts. I’m not one for mixing prints, but I might make an exception to the rule just this once. 

What are you loving for the summer? What pieces do you think I need to finally brighten up my funeral director wardrobe? I’m trying, people! Help me get colorful!

Happy 1st Birthday, Myles!

Myles truck

I’m posting this a few days early because I’m so excited to wish a big old Barkday to Myles, our golden retriever! March 28 will be his first birthday and we’ll be celebrating with two of his BFFs (Duke, a Boxer, and Dover a Rottie) enjoying pupcakes, and puppy shenanigans. Having a dog is one of the greatest joys I’ve ever experienced, especially since we had him since he was 10 weeks old. Both my husband and I have formed such a great bond with him. He’s our fur-baby and we love him to pieces! 

Myles fam

Here’s our really awkward first family photo. We did not both plan on being all matchy-matchy with out clothes, it just kind of happened that way. He pretty much cried the whole way home, peed in his crate and on his blanket, and wreaked puppy havoc. It was a tiring first week!


myles beach

myles rug

As he got older, we bought him bowties and accessories, toys (and rugs…) that he would eventually destroy, brought him to the beach,  and we took him to AKC Puppy Star class and thought we wouldn’t be invited back after the first time. But…we passed!!

Myles award


We even got told we have a rude dog (though he became the star of the show once he learned that not everything is a social event…Goldens…) And we made some amazing lasting friendships at dog school, both human and canine!

Myles punk pup

Next up for Myles, continued training, Canine Good Citizen (once he’s…ah-hem…fixed),  and Therapy Dog Certification so we can bring him to hospitals, schools, and other places and he can put a smile on the faces of others as he does for us every day. Myles, we love you! Happy 1st Barkday!